Mighty MikeyD is still recovering and getting better and
stronger. He continues to Improve which is a great thing especially after the traumatic
brain injury no one knows how far back you can come with a brain injury.
Moya, Julia , Ciara and I had a family
meeting with the Children's Specialized Hospital last week. Unfortunately they
are not ready to release him form the Hospital yet. We were hoping they would
start transitioning him back to Bayshore in April at least one day a week and
then two days a week . The bad news is they said he will not be ready to be
released from the hospital until next year meaning school year like next September
or October . It is sad we were really hoping that MikeyD would get back to his
friends and classmates at Bayshore who will all be graduating 8th grade so he could
graduate with his classmates. MikeyD
left Bayshore for summer vacation that June of 6th grade and never returned. Now it looks like he will not
return to Bayshore untill next year and all is classmates will be gone. We are mourning
the loss of the son, brother , grandson , nephew , cousin that we had before that
tragic night and adjusting to the new MikeyD. It is really hard for all of us
to watch his life as he knew it was taken away from him. MikeyD left us and was
reborn he was first in a coma then he laid in bed like a baby in a crib couldn’t
talk or eat was on a feeding tube and was paralyzed . MikeyD then had to learn
how to walk and talk again just like a baby. He is now learning how to write
again and struggles with short term memory problems. All this because of the
amount of time he was down due to the response time and the lack of an AED.
We know that God sent
MikeyD back to us for a reason. One of them is to save the lives of other
children and spare other families from the hardship we have suffered. I
promised everyone when MikeyD was getting better my family will pay it forward
and set out to help save other children. Right now the MikeyD fund is raising
money with the help of Jim Dolan , Mark Peters and The Janet’s Fund to pay for
the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) to come to Middletown and screen
all kids for free to the families. Jim Dolan’s son Jimmy and Mark Peters are
both Sudden Cardiac Arrest (SCA) survivors who survived with no brain damage
due to the response time with an AED. They have become great friends to MikeyD
and my family. MikeyD , Jimmy and Mark share a special bond knowing what each
has been through. Less than 5% of kids who suffer a SCA survive. Janet did not
survive she was the same age as MikeyD when she suffered a SCA running laps at
Cheerleading practice. Janet’s dad and mom Jim and Karen are the ones who got Janet’s
law passed in New Jersey two weeks to the day after MikeyD went down. Part of
Janets law all public and private schools K-12 must have an AED onsite at least
5 school employees to be certified in CPR/AED.
I would like to see a MikeyD law pass legislation that all teams especially
outdoors must have an AED and that all coaches be CPR/AED certified so we can save
children’s lives every day and save other families from the unforgettable
trauma and tragedy that SCA brings to the families of all these children. We
have lost 4 children to SCA arrest in Monmouth county since MikeyD went down.
We will be doing the CHOP screening on Saturday April 26th at the
St. Mary’s Mater Dei gym in Middletown for all Kids who can make it from
anywhere you do not need to be from Middletown. We need your help in spreading
the word to as many families as possible. Please let me know if you can help us
if you know any nurses who can take Blood pressures that day it will be great.
We also need admin people to check children in as well as CPR/AED instructors to do demonstrations.
I hope to have a link on the MikeyD blog next week where people
can register their children on line and also a form that you can print and
bring to the screening.Please mark your calendars now the screenings will be
all day so if you have baseball practice in the morning you can come in the
afternoon and vice versa. I ask you to join us in saving as many children’s
lives as we possibly can.
Please pass this link on to as many people as you can and every
sports team you know via Email Facebook etc. the more children we screen the
better.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILtoyif_FrU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILtoyif_FrU
We Believe in Miracles !!!
Please keep praying and posting for MikeyD !!!